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Your Quinceanera: 11 Fun Facts & Traditions

manager — Tue, 11 Jan 2022 07:00:49 +0000

If you need a break from planning your Quinceanera, 11 Fun Facts & Traditions might give you some new ideas. Maybe you’ll even add one to your celebration!

Quinceaneras are celebrated even today, especially in the Hispanic community.

In the past, though, a Quince was a solemn religious celebration held at a church with a reception following, very similar to a low-key wedding. Unlike a wedding, though, there’s more traditional dancing and fun as the primary focus.

Quinceaneras are wonderfully intricate, and since not everyone is familiar with the tradition behind the details, we’ve put together a little Q & A regarding the things we found most interesting and fun about the traditions of the Quinceanera.

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1. What does Quinceanera mean?

“Quince” is the Spanish word for fifteen. “Anos” means years. Quinceanera means “she who is fifteen.” Fifteen is considered the age at which a girl is ready to take on her role as a lady in the community.

2. What’s the meaning of The Last Doll?

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The Last Doll symbolizes the celebrant’s end of childhood. She then passes the doll on to her younger sibling.

3. Why does the father change the celebrant’s shoes?

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The celebrant wears flat shoes for the ceremony—representing her childhood—and her father later helps her into a pair of heels as a sign that she is now a lady and ready to dance gracefully into the world. Following this is the traditional father-daughter dance!

4. Why is the bouquet replaced by a scepter?

The scepter symbolizes the celebrant’s letting go of childhood.

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5. What’s behind the different symbols in the ceremony?

A Bible, covered in lace or silk, is the first object given to the celebrant because the word of God is to take an important place in her life.
The flower bouquet should be the same color as the celebrant’s dress and is left at the altar.
The celebrant is crowned with a tiara symbolizing her position as a princess and daughter of God.
Three roses symbolize the celebrant’s infancy, childhood, and current age.
A ring, often given by the godparents, signifies the infinite circle of God’s love.
A cross symbolizes her faith in God.

6. Why is the dress the most important element?

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Just like a bride, the celebrant’s gown speaks of her personality and must be the most beautiful element of the party. To show her taste and flair, the celebrant chooses the style and color of the dress.

7. Why is there is a toast and a cake cutting ceremony?

Similar to a wedding, Quinces have a toast and cake cutting ceremony at the reception to mark the acceptance of the young lady into adult society.

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8. Do the Godparents split the cost of the party?

Often this is true. Some godparents even shoulder more than half the budget.

9. What is involved in the choreographed waltz?

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The damas and chambelanes (the court of honor), together with the celebrant, take days of practice to perfect a traditional Quinceanera dance, often called a fairytale dance.

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10. What’s the ancient origin of Quinceaneras?

Although the history of Quinceaneras is unclear, documents date the Quinceanera back to the Aztec period.

11. Why are the celebrant’s baptismal vows renewed?

During the religious ceremony, the celebrant gives thanks to God for the fifteen wonderful years in her life. The priest renews her baptismal vows as well in front of her parents, godparents, and close friends to signify her continued commitment to God.

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Exploring your Quinceanera Part 1: A Sacred Blessing

manager — Tue, 07 Sep 2021 08:38:09 +0000

With all the preparations that go into your special day, it’s always good to take a moment to reflect on just what your Quinceanera really means. More than just an extraordinary rite of passage from girlhood to adult, the blessing you’ll receive, either at your Quinceanera Mass or by the priest at another times, is of great significance. So let’s take a moment to set aside the decorative details and consider the spiritual aspects of the beautiful celebration you’re about to enjoy.

The Quinceañera Mass vs. a Quinceanera Blessing

You don’t need to schedule a full Mass to receive the Bendición de la Quinceañera. The ritual can take place either as a blessing at the end of a regularly scheduled Mass, or perhaps at a special time set aside just for you and your family.

The priest or deacon will bestow this special blessing in the presence of your parents and godparents, and perhaps your Quinceanera court of honor, but probably without the formal procession. They would just be with you as supportive friends.

Regarding Quinceañera Attire

If you choose to have a blessing only, be sure to check with your church or parish about their requirements and preferences for what you wear. If you’re having a grand reception afterward, you might be allowed to wear your special Quinceanera dress. Or you might be asked to dress more simply for the blessing and then you can change into your fancy dress for the party.

Even if you’re having a special Quinceanera Mass, you’ll need to check for clothing restrictions. For instance, some churches or parishes don’t allow the young men in your court to wear tuxedos, though they can dress in other formal attire.

Why the Bendición de la Quinceañera is Included in the Book of Blessings

The Book of Blessings—De Benedictionibus—provides special blessings for people, places, and things for a variety of occasions and circumstances. Some of these include the blessing of a married couple or a family, and special blessings for sons, daughters, and other children.

Why an Approved Order of Blessing is Necessary

The traditional blessing that was part of the religion of Latinos and that was common in some countries of Central and South America was altered in the United States. It had become an unofficial “liturgical rite.” This created some problems because all liturgy must be approved and confirmed by the full body of U.S. Bishops as well as receive recognition by the Vatican’s Congregation for Divine Worship.

The reason why the ceremony—which was formally approved in the U.S. in 2007—needed stricter guidelines and norms because some celebrants created spontaneous prayers and rituals of their own.

Your Parents’ Vision of the Quinceanera Blessing

Before approaching your parish or Church, your parents will have recognized that you’ve shown yourself capable of handling additional responsibilities and they want you to have a special blessing to help you carry out those tasks.

Many parents view the Quinceanera Mass as a formal way to thank God for the blessing of having you as their daughter. They may also ask for guidance for themselves as they help you enter adulthood.

The Role of your Extended Family

Most of the time you’ll celebrate your Quinceanera Mass with your grandparents and godparents, aunts and uncles and often cousins, especially if they’re in your Court of Honor.

Other couples may come to support you—perhaps your Esponsores—and may carry the personal religious articles which are blessed before being presented to you.

Some Parishes Require a Period of Preparation

You and your court—whether 7 couples or just 7 attendants—may be asked to participate in a one-day retreat or perhaps some other activities and prayers. These meetings will most likely focus on the contribution of women to society and also how adult females can become active participants in parish life. You may also be asked to take a more active role in various ministries if you haven’t done so already.

Your Quinceanera can Strengthen Your Faith

Unfortunately society today has a great deal of influence when it comes to negative things like gangs, drug and alcohol abuse, and irresponsible behavior including sexual conduct. This is precisely what makes the celebration of a Quince a crucial time in a young woman’s life.

Adults have the responsibility to pass down their faith, and the Church can help by using your Quinceanera preparation to encourage you about women’s positive roles both in society and in the Catholic Church.

Why the Rite is Just for Young Ladies

According to tradition, the Bendición de la Quinceañera has always been a celebration for young Hispanic women specifically because it relates to the role of women in the Church, family, and society. Also, at one time, the Quince was a community affair. All the 15-year-old girls in the community were presented as ready for marriage, and sometimes a dowry of sorts was offered by any young gentlemen looking for a future bride.

It’s one case if fraternal twins—male and female—ask to be honored at the same time on their 15th birthday, but usually, the young man is given some other honor on that day. And because of the emphasis on the attributes of the Virgin Mary, it would seem reasonably obvious why there has never been a formal tradition for the inclusion of 15-year-old boys in the rite, other than to assist as part of the Corte de Honor or as the Quinceanera’s escort for the ceremony and reception.

Your New Role in your World

It’s always been a tradition in the Hispanic community—as it is in some other cultures like Jewish families—that the women are the ones who keep and hand down the faith, organize feast days, celebrate rituals and offer prayers.

The mother makes the home a domestic church via the altarcito.
Hispanic women are the primary evangelizers and teachers.
The Abuelita—the grandmother—is honored for these very reasons.
Your Quince Años Blessing publicly acknowledges your readiness—and willingness—to take your place in your family, your community, and your world!

May Your Preparations be Blessed!

We hope this look into the spiritual side of your Quinceanera adds a bit of color and gives you a deeper perspective as you prepare for this wonderful day.

Now—back to work! You’ve got a lot of planning to do!

To read all about how your Quinceanera can actually change your world, click here to check out Part 2 of this article: Exploring your Quinceanera Part 2: A Chance to Change your World

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6 Quinceanera Traditions: The How & Why Behind the Celebration

manager — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 08:00:27 +0000

Your Quinceanera has deep roots & more tradition than you might think. Check out these 6 Quinceanera Traditions: The How & Why Behind the Celebration.

A quinceanera—also known as a quince años, or quinces—is a way to embrace religious traditions, the virtues of family, and social responsibility. But most importantly, it’s a celebration of your transformation from a young girl into an adult.

It’s your way of telling the world that you’re leaving behind your childish ways and are making a conscious step forward into maturity.

Normally a quinceanera is celebrated when the young girl turns 15, and is somewhat similar to a “Sweet 16.” Naturally, though, as a quinceanera is rooted in Latin culture, there are still many differences.

6 Quinceanera Traditions:

The Catholic Thanksgiving Mass

As mentioned earlier, the quinceanera, like most Catholic traditions, start with a religious ceremony.

You will enter the church in a procession, accompanied by your court, your parents and your godparents.
The readings are normally chosen by you, the celebrant, in order to make them more meaningful.
You can also opt to read yourself, or have someone special read.
After the Gospel and the Homily, you will renew your Baptismal promise, and commit yourself to God and the Virgin Mary.

In line with becoming an adult, this is your way of owning the promise your parents made for you when you were baptized, and make those vows your own.

The Court

Your court first appears when they accompany you into the Church.

The original tradition was to have 14 boys — chambelans, escortes, or galans
14 girls — damas
and a male escort for the celebrant

The total of 15 couples is meant to symbolize each year of the celebrant’s life.

Now, however, it’s been more common that there are 7 boys, 7 girls, the celebrant and her escort.

Invite your closest friends and family members to join you on this, to make the experience more meaningful.
The dresses of your court should be similar to each other, and the boys are expected to wear tuxes or other formal dress clothes as well.

This will help the coordination during the reception, where they will all partake in a dance with you.

It would be best to sit them down and make sure they understand what they’re getting themselves into, though!
If they don’t practice the same customs, they may not know anything about a quince at all.

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Father-Daughter Dance

The first dance at the reception is normally for you and your father.

He’ll pick a song of meaning to the two of you – maybe something you two normally dance to at home or is always in the background, or something he has sung to you before.
This represents your first public dance and is a way for your father to present you to your guests.
This also symbolizes that your father is the first man in our life.

The Waltz

Hopefully, your court has a dance step or two within them, because traditionally, they’ll take part in a waltz.

The Waltz is an elegant and choreographed dance meant to share with them and your escort.
With that many individuals, it’s expected to take some time for everyone to catch on, so plan ahead!
If you opt not to have a separate father-daughter dance, the first part of the waltz is danced with him. After some time, he will hand you to your escort.

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The Quinceanera Gown

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As your first “adult dress,” your quinceanera gown will be a lavish one.

Traditionally, a lot of tulle is used to achieve a princess look.
If you prefer something less extravagant, silk or taffeta are common options as well.
Normally, white or a light pink is used, but in more recent times, the celebrant has more options.

Try to keep within the pastel family, though: The color is supposed to represent purity, a symbol of virginity – and to honor those of more traditional thinking, take their feelings into consideration when it comes to your color choice.

Traditional Quinceanera Gifts

Aside from other birthday presents, you’ll receive some traditional ones from your family. These symbolize different aspects of the party and your transformation into a woman.

High Heels:

Normally given to you by your parents, they symbolize your first pair of “adult” shoes. In fact, this gift can take on a ritual all its own:

Your parents will remove the flats you’ve been wearing all day, and replace them with the heels.
Symbolically, your flats represent your childhood, while heels represent your stepping into adulthood.

The Last Doll:

The doll will traditionally be provided by your father, and may be wearing a similar dress, or sporting a similar hair style as your own.

This symbolizes leaving behind your childish possessions, and taking in more mature interests in life and assuming responsibilities.

Fun fact: Some celebrants opt to throw the doll away to a pool of younger girls, the same as a bride throws her bouquet to a group of single girls.

Bracelet or Ring:

Your godparents may gift you with a piece of jewelry, such as a bracelet or a ring.

This symbolizes the undying love God has for you.

Tiara:

Like the high heels, a tiara is meant to take the place of a simpler headpiece and is placed on your head sometime during the ceremony.

It symbolizes that are a princess in the eyes of God.

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Earrings:

St. Benedict Medal Earrings

While the other gifts symbolize something more socially meaningful or spiritual, earrings are more of a reminder.

They remind you to keep your ears open to God, and to listen closely to His word.

Bible:

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The Bible is meant to keep your faith grounded, and for you to turn to in times of trouble.

It’s meant to accompany you throughout the rest of your life.

Rosary, Medal or Cross:

Central to the Catholic faith, the Bible expected to play a central role in your life as an adult and to assist you in your prayers.

It’s also likely that you’ll receive a medal of a Patron Saint.
The medal will differ based on what the gift giver wants for you.
Just the same, a cross may be given to symbolize faith in God, yourself and your world.

Scepter:

Being given a scepter, and your acceptance of the same, symbolizes your acceptance of the responsibilities that come with being a woman. It also symbolizes authority.

You may think that a lot of the traditions are over-the-top, and completely irrelevant at this day and age, but traditions do count for something. Embrace them! Don’t shy away.

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Corte de Honor: Selecting Your Damas and Chambelanes

manager — Tue, 04 May 2021 08:00:46 +0000

When it comes to your Quinceanera, one of the most important details is your Corte de Honor: Selecting Your Damas and Chambelanes to celebrate with you.

Many Latin American girls observe the Quinceanera tradition as a way to honor their transition from a girl to a young lady. It’s similar to the sweet sixteen traditions that Americans follow. However, the quince has religious origins which is why it traditionally begins with a ceremonial Mass.

One of the most important elements of a Quinceanera is the Corte de Honor. Traditionally made up of 14 girls—damas—and 14 boys—chambelanes—these young people are usually the Quinceanera’s friends or family and will perform a waltz during the celebration.

More modern celebrations don’t require as many damas and chambelanes, so there can be as few as 7 boys and 7 girls. Some celebrants choose to have a male-only Corte de Honor. If so, there are usually 7 boys or young men.

There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to choosing your court so don’t feel pressured. You might find that selecting your chambelanes will be a lot harder because boys aren’t generally as excited about these things as girls. Most celebrants choose cousins and family friends to be their chambelanes if they can’t fill all the places with friends.

Traditionally, the entire court, along with the Quinceanera, will dance throughout the celebration, sometimes in between courses of the meal. There is also a baile de sorpresa or Surprise Dance that the court prepares for the Quinceanera.

But in this modern era, often the traditional dances are replaced with videos, professional performances, or other types of celebration. Sometimes the traditional waltz is either replaced with, or complemented by, a bachata performed by the celebrant and two male partners.

The number of damas is totally up to the Quinceanera depending on how many girlfriends she has.

Being a dama or a chambelan is a supporting role in a Quinceanera, but it’s also an essential aspect of the ceremony because it represents the friendship shared with the celebrant as she enters womanhood.

Roles of the damas and chambelanes:

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Attend all the dance rehearsals for the Quinceañera.
Damas should wear a ball gown or fancy party dress—chambelanes wear a tuxedo or other dressy attire.
Attend the Mass, which is usually held before the reception.
Prepare a surprise performance for the celebrant.
If there’s a video featuring the celebrant’s friends, the court will usually have a role in the production.
If the court is to be part of the photo shoots at the ceremony and reception, they’ll have to stick close to the celebrant most of the time.

If the court is to be part of the photo shoots at the ceremony and reception, they’ll have to stick close to the celebrant most of the time.

As a way to show gratitude for their help and participation, here are some obligations of the Quinceañera when it comes to her court:

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Provide the venue for rehearsals.
Provide appropriate refreshments—snacks or even a meal—for each rehearsal or when gathered to plan for the celebration.
Keep them involved with the planning especially when it comes to their dresses and tuxedos.
USEFUL TIP: Don’t insist on a uniform dress code. Let the damas select the neckline they want, and maybe let the guys choose between tuxedos or a more relaxed yet elegant feel like dress pants with formal vests and ties.
As much as possible, cover the expenses for the dresses and tuxedos. Being asked to participate in such a big celebration may make them feel they’ll be responsible for a big budget, too.

If some members of the court are the celebrant’s friends, especially if they’re not of Latin origin, it would be good to get to know their parents beforehand. Write a short handwritten note explaining that they’ve been chosen to be a part of the Quinceanera. This is a courteous gesture that everyone’s parents will definitely appreciate.

During a girl’s teenage years, she experiences dramatic changes with regard to her emotions and appearance. A quinceanera is a great time to celebrate all that she’s going through by reminding her how much she’s loved by family and friends.

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Choosing your damas and chambelanes can be tough, though. Here are some pointers to help your decision-making go a little more smoothly:

Choose your closest friends whose parents are friendly with—or at least familiar with—your parents so it won’t be difficult to ask their permission when it comes to coordinating schedules.
Include some members of your family—even those younger than 15 can participate. (The rule in which women below 15 are not allowed to dance in public no longer applies.)
If you find it hard to recruit 14 pairs, then cut it down to 7 pairs.
Let them know ahead of time that you’ll be selecting them to be a part of your court so that they can also let you know if their schedule allows them to attend the rehearsals.
It’s most gracious to distribute formal invitations asking them to take part. Since they know that Quinceaneras are a big deal, they would expect some sort of formality.
If they’ll be buying their own dresses, discuss the matter with them privately before inviting, but again, it would be best if these costs are covered by the Quinceanera’s family.
Remember that they can say no from the beginning, and this should be honored. Knowing that you have them on board from the start helps a lot when it comes to rehearsals and planning.
Some celebrants choose a dama de honor who will serve as her right-hand gal. This is helpful if it’s a big court so when it comes to making plans, she can be in charge of discussing certain things with everyone. else

Planning a Quinceanera is a great bonding experience between the celebrant and her mother as well as her closest friends.

Celebrating your Quinceanera is important, but it is equally important to choose the people with whom you get along. Their role in the celebration is symbolic and in order to uphold the values of this age-old tradition, you truly want to celebrate with the people in your life who matter the most.

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How Quinceañeras are Celebrated Around the World

manager — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 08:39:17 +0000

The transition from child to an adult member of society in different countries vary, so check out How Quinceañeras are Celebrated Around the World.

The Quinceanera is a sacred tradition in many cultures. Depending on where you live, the celebrations can vary wildly.

American girls sometimes celebrate their Sweet Sixteen. European girls, as well as some Americans, have a debutante ball.

In Latin America, this most important coming of age celebration is called the Quinceañera.

How Quinceañeras are Celebrated Around the World: The Basics

What does the word Quinceañera mean?

Quinceañera translates into a feminine form of “fifteen-year-old.” However, a Quinceañera is really a celebration of the transition from childhood to womanhood. It’s fascinating to see how different countries’ cultures celebrate this milestone.

Why is the Quinceañera important?

Historically, the Quinceañera is important is because long ago, young girls coming of age had essentially two choices:

Submit to training in the duties of being a wife and mother
Enter a convent

In some Catholic families it’s still considered an honor to the family for a son to become a priest or a daughter to become a nun. But it’s more common for modern 15-year-olds to celebrate their grand birthday as a coming out party.

How Quinceañeras are Celebrated Around the World: Differences from Country to Country

Quinceañeras in Argentina, Peru, Paraguay, Bolivia, and Uruguay

In these countries, the celebration is referred to as fiesta de Quince. The ceremony begins with the entrance of the teenager accompanied by her father. Similar to Western debutante balls, the young lady is dressed in an elaborate gown that includes certain traditional elements.

The father-daughter pair make their way through the front door which is usually decked out in flowers. Friends, relatives, and well-wishers customarily give roses to the father. From there, the waltz ceremony begins. The father has the first dance with his daughter and then passes her along to other males in the family for their turn to dance with her.

The Ceremony of the 15 Candles is an important aspect of the Quinceañera in these countries. The birthday girl offers one candle to each of the 15 people she considers most influential in her life. Also called the “Tree of Life” ceremony, the celebrant usually gives a short speech mentioning something significant about each person.

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Quinceañeras in Brazil

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In Brazil, the Quinceañera is called the festa de debutantes or festa de quinze anos. It opens with the entrance of the birthday girl and is followed by an optional Mass. Many segments of dancing accompany the Brazilian ceremony, and many styles of music are played. These include international, traditional, and popular music chosen by the celebrant.

The dances are important as the celebrant is expected to dance with every male member of her family as well as one boy her own age. He might be her boyfriend, her best male friend, or some other significant male. Like debutante celebrations, there is a cake cutting ceremony. That’s the one element of the celebration that everyone looks forward to!

Quinceañeras in Cuba

The Quinceañera in Cuba is very interesting. Traditionally, 14 couples waltz around the Quinceañera in a specifically choreographed dance.

She herself is accompanied by a boy of her choice. The dance around the celebrant is meant to highlight the dance of the birthday girl and her male friend. Also, in a Cuban Quinceañera, all of the male dancers typically wear tuxedos.

Quinceañeras in the Dominican Republic

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A Quinceañera in the Dominican Republic is much more traditional as compared to other Latin American countries. The celebration usually starts with a Mass held in a Catholic church. This is a means for the girl to receive the blessing of the Lord and for her to give thanks for another year of life.

The party after the Mass is more eventful. The celebrant is accompanied by 14 pairs of young people. Together with her own escort, that brings the total to 15 couples, one couple for each year of life. As in other countries, a waltz is danced and the colorful clothing of the guests ensures that the event is dazzling.

Interesting note: Guests at a Dominican Republic Quinceañera are expected to wear colorful formal clothing. They’re are also expected to maintain the Quinceañera celebrant as the focal point.

The Dominican Republic Quinceañera has many other choreographed dances in addition to the waltz. Guests often enjoy dancing the merengue and salsa. And of course, since this is a party, they’ll partake of a lavish buffet of food and drink, and enjoy a slice of cake after the formal dances.

Quinceañeras in Ecuador, Venezuela, and Colombia

Quinceañeras in these countries are generally quite similar. The birthday girl arrives with her father and is then received by her mother and her friends. The father and daughter waltz, and then the Quinceañera dances with her brothers if she has any. Other male relatives also enjoy a customary dance with the celebrant.

The Quinceañera’s dress in these countries is typically an evening gown in a pastel or light hue. She wears a tiara, jewels on her hands, and a beautiful necklace. Every guest is expected to wear formal attire.

The interesting part of the Quinceañera in these countries is the fact that after the traditional dances, a “crazy hour” is expected. It’s not uncommon to have a famous DJ in charge of the show. Guests often wear masks, wigs, and make use of other wild party favors as part of the fun.

Quinceañeras in Mexico

The Mexican Quinceañera is particularly interesting.

First, the celebrant is adorned with makeup and beautiful jewelry. Symbolically, it is at this very moment that the girl—a plain and unembellished child—becomes a woman. She celebrates with a beautifully painted face and ornaments fit for a young lady. Modern times have changed that, but it’s still a lovely thought.

The Quinceañera wears an evening dress—traditionally a ball gown—into which her personal style has been incorporated. Her mother is very involved in the planning process. Mexican Quinceañeras also begin with a Catholic Mass. After arriving at the church, the celebrant is accompanied by her entourage consisting of her parents, godparents, and her court of honor.

The court of honor—Corte de honor—is a select group of the Quinceañera’s peers. They are paired off, one boy to one girl, and are called chambelanes and damas respectively. The court can range from 7 to 15 pairs.

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A rosary is traditionally presented to the Quinceañera by her godparents. This gift could also be a locket or a pendant of Mexico’s patron saint, the Virgin of Guadalupe. A tiara is also awarded the celebrant to remind her that she will always be a princess, both to her family and to God.

Choreographed dances, waltzes with the male members in her family, and a dance of her own with her chosen escort are all part of the Mexican Quinceañera.

How Quinceañeras are Celebrated Around the World: The Event of a Lifetime

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The Quinceañera is, without a doubt, an important ceremony for all of the family and not just the birthday girl.

There are so many other ceremonies involved including Changing of the Shoes—a ceremony during which her father or another male relative changes the girl’s shoes from flats to high heels as a mark of her entry to womanhood.

The Quinceañera is an occasion not to be missed!

If you’re a local of Latin America, this comes as no surprise. To guests in these countries, being invited to a Quinceañera is a great honor indeed. And no matter the country of origin, this coming of age party is a lot of fun.

So if you find yourself celebrating your 15-year-old friend’s birthday with a Quinceañera, let loose and join right in!

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A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras: Taking a Closer Look

manager — Tue, 06 Apr 2021 08:27:59 +0000

The Quinceanera may seem like a modern celebration these days, but take a closer look with A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras.

For some fifteen-year-old Latin American girls, many of its elements affirm what’s trendy and current.

However, this unforgettable rite of passage in the life of a female teenager dates all the way back to 500 B.C. and the Aztecs! It’s truly fascinating, so let’s take a closer look at the history of Quinceanera celebrations throughout the ages.

A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras: An Ancient Tradition

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During the Aztec and Toltec civilizations of ancient Mesoamerica, fifteen marked the age at which girls became women. Afterward, they were appropriately viewed as future mothers. This was crucial during those times because the culture was dependent upon the rearing of future warriors in order to survive and flourish.

In 18th Century Spain, there’s documentation that the Duchess of Alba threw a palace party and invited teenage girls to attend, dressing them up in formal clothing for the very first time. The following century, the Empress Carlotta of Mexico did the same for the teenage daughters in her court, presenting them to society as now eligible for marriage.

Throughout time, the primary goal of the Quinceanera shifted. It was no longer about becoming a future mother but instead became symbolic of a girl’s transition into womanhood. The celebration of the Quinceanera includes elements of the Aztec heritage along with Spanish and Catholic traditions, many of which are often present even in today’s times.

A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras: Quinceaneras in Mexico

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A traditional Mexican Quinceanera always included damas and chambelanes—pairs of boys and girls close to the celebrant’s age—who danced and held court with the Quinceanera.

Alongside the celebrant was an accompanying male holding the title man of honor. Potential suitors and their corresponding dowries were presented to the Quinceanera and her family.

But before she was given away in marriage, the Quinceanera engaged in festivities with women who gave her instructions about her future responsibilities and duties.

She was also provided with reminders about staying true to cultural tradition and holding to the correct spiritual path in life.

Quinceanera Celebrations, Large and Small

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No matter what status a family may have held, a Quinceanera was celebrated because it was a landmark birthday.

Affluent families threw lavish parties and had the Quinceanera don fancy, princess-like dresses. In many Latin American countries, these parties were written about in the society pages of newspapers so that others could read of the elaborate celebrations.

When the Latin cultures migrated to America in the sixties, they brought the tradition of the Quinceanera with them. Immigrants held grand parties just as in their motherland. Some opted for simple celebrations with food, cake, and dancing, while others went the extra mile and made it as big a celebration as possible.

Some held a block parties in the neighborhood streets, while the richer families hosted their celebrations in country clubs or other exclusive venues.

Today, the expenses for these gatherings can range in the thousands of dollars, with $4,000 being an average cost for a modest party. Meanwhile, those who can afford a lavish celebration can expect to spend $15,000 or even more.

No matter the simplicity or extravagance, though, today’s Quinceanera celebrations still combine modern elements with old traditions.

A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras: A Hat Tip to Religion

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While the Quinceanera party is often celebrated differently, it’s significant to note that many cultures still include elements that pay tribute to the Catholic Church.

The most obvious indication is the inclusion of a Holy Mass preceding the revelry. This element of the celebration is also a way to thank God for the blessings that the family has received, including that of the girl reaching her fifteenth birthday.

Because of this, there are three elements, common to almost all cultures, that are given to the Quinceanera during her ceremony.

First is a Bible, often adorned in fancy cloth, bestowed by the priest. This is a symbol of the importance of God’s word to her life.
Second is a flower bouquet, usually in the same colors as the celebrant’s dress and that is left at the foot of the statue of the Virgin Mary.
Finally, a tiara symbolizes that the Quinceanera is both a daughter of God and a princess in the eyes of those who love her.

Other items that are often included are a rosary and a prayer book. The rosary is significant because this will be her first adult rosary to replace the child-sized one she most likely received at her first communion.

The prayer book is a symbol of her initiation into a life of pious devotion, which is something expected of adults of her gender.

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A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras: Non-Religious Elements

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Apart from the religious items that are part and parcel of a Quinceanera’s celebration, there are other symbols of the girl’s transition into womanhood.

First is the dress that she wears to her party.

It’s usually reflective of her personal style and preferences but still maintains some elements of the traditional Quinceanera gown. It’s also her first adult dress—not unlike an evening gown—and denotes a change of status in society.

A traditional Quinceanera gown is similar to a wedding gown, another item of clothing that is also worn as a symbol of societal transition. A Quinceanera gown symbolizes the change in status from child to young woman while a wedding gown marks the transition from a single woman to the status of a wife.

The ceremony of the Last Doll

This doll is typically dressed in clothing similar the Quinceanera’s gown, symbolizes the last doll she will ever play with and is usually passed on to her younger sister sometime during or after the party.

The presentation of the high-heeled shoes

During this ceremony, she changes from the slippers or flats that she wore to the Mass and at the beginning of the party—as well as more formal jewelry are additional signs of the transition from a little girl.

In some families, other “womanly” indulgences are celebrated, such as the Quinceanera finally being allowed to tweeze her eyebrows, shave her legs, put on makeup, attend adult parties, and entertain young men.

A Guide to the History of Quinceaneras: A Celebration that’s Here to Stay

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The Quinceanera has a long and rich history. Couple that with the enthusiasm and fervor with which it’s still celebrated today, and it’s likely that this rite of passage will remain an essential part of the lives of most Latin American girls.

While Western nations and cultures have their Sweet 16 and Debutante Balls, the Quinceanera is the Latin culture’s take on those celebrations and honors the young females of their families.

It’s also a marker of hope that the Quinceanera girl’s future will be as bright and beautiful as she herself was on this most amazing day!

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Now That’s a Quinceanera!

manager — Thu, 09 Feb 2017 19:16:52 +0000

Did you see the recent news report about Rubi Ibarra and how thousands from across the country showed up to her Quinceanera on December 26? She’s not the only one to have one wild party. We thought it might be fun for you to take a break from all that planning and have a look at three exciting, amazing and wonderful Quinces. We’ll start with Rubi, then Maya Henry who scored the Kardashian’s makeup artist, and close with thoughtful Disney star Belle Thorne’s Quince in memory of her dad. Although once you get a look at these Quinceaneras, all of a sudden “understated” and “smaller guest list” might sound like pretty good ideas after all!

Rubi Ibarra: Practically a Flash Mob

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When Rubi’s padre posted a very sweet video invitation to his daughter’s Quinceanera, what he meant was for friends and neighbors in their village to come and celebrate. Instead, Rubi found herself the center of a media circus with thousands from across Mexico swarming to her little town of San Luis Potosi. Here are some highlights:

Interjet, a Mexican airline, ran a 30% discount promotion for flights with the slogan “Are you going to Rubi’s party?”
Famous singer Luis Antonio Lopez “El Mimoso,” wrote a “corrido” song for her.
Rubi got an offer to appear on “The Rose of Guadalupe,” a popular soap opera.
One woman came all the way from the northern state of Coahuila to see if she could score a dress for her granddaughter’s Quinceanera this next May.

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Read all about it here, including the original video invitation: http://people.com/human-interest/thousands-attend-quinceanera-after-her-dads-facebook-invite-accidentally-goes-viral/

Maya Henry: $6 Million

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Maya’s padre, a millionaire lawyer in San Antonia, Texas, wanted his daughter to have an “unforgettable” 15th birthday. We think he managed to pull that off pretty well, but he did have some help: He hired a premiere event planner from New York—with 150 planning assistants! But that’s what it takes to make all this happen and more:

Nick Jonas and Pitbull provided the music.

Patrick Ta, makeup artist to the Kardashians, did Maya’s makeup.

Designer Rolando Santana was commissioned to create not one but two dresses.

The photographer was Donna Newman, famous for working with Michelle Obama and Matt Damon.

Maya’s dad built a 55,000 square foot venue—complete with cherry trees 30 feet tall—specifically for her party.

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What’s most amazing is that there were “only” 600 people invited, which when you divide that into $6 million—that’s $10,000 per guest! That’s reasonably inexpensive, though, considering Maya is friends with people like Justin Bieber and campaigns for Hillary Clinton. (The article didn’t say if Ms. Clinton attended, but we’ll bet she was invited!)

Check it out here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3483958/Is-America-s-luckiest-teenager-15-year-old-girl-thrown-lavish-6-MILLION-Quincea-era-performances-Nick-Jonas-Pitbull-make-Kardashians-artist-pictures-Michelle-Obama-s-photographer.html

Bella Thorne: a Mixed Blessing

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Star of the Disney series, “Shake It Up,” Bella’s Quinceanera was beautiful and bittersweet: Her father, who always wanted her to have a Quince, died in a motorcycle accident in 2007. But with the help of her friend and costar, Zendaya, Bella rallied and planned a lovely Quince that will be re-celebrated when she gets married:

She and her full court including her brothers and sisters—and Zendaya—arrived in a horse-drawn carriage.

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Sherri Hill helped design the pink heart-shaped dress which resembles what Bella wants to wear for her wedding.
Her butterfly cake knife was engraved and will be used for her wedding.

With all that Disney splendor, though, Bella’s a pretty thoughtful girl: Instead of gifts for herself, she asked her guests to bring canned goods to donate to the Los Angeles Food Bank.

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Now, after all of that, we’re pretty sure you could use a little help with your own budget, so check out our common sense blogs about budgeting for a “normal” Quinceanera!

Here’s our bottom line budget plan: https://qbydavinci.com/blog/your-quinceanera-budget-a-bottom-line-guide/

And here’s how to have a Quince for a very reasonable $2,000 total (not $2,000 per guest!): https://qbydavinci.com/blog/how-to-have-an-awesome-quince-for-under-2000/

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Exploring your Quinceanera Part 2: A Chance to Change your World

manager — Thu, 13 Oct 2016 17:36:25 +0000

In Exploring your Quinceanera Part 1, we took a look at the spiritual benefit your Quince has for you and your family, and what your Church might require of you before bestowing such an important blessing. But a Quinceanera can be much more than a glorious day of blessing and celebration. There’s great significance to a Quince when it comes to leadership. So once more, take just a moment from your hectic planning and think about how important your Quinceanera really is when it comes to truly changing your world.

Why the Bendición de la Quinceañera is in English and Spanish

In some parishes, the young woman asking for a Quinceanera blessing may speak only Spanish. Others are bilingual, and some who were born in the U.S. speak only English. The family and friends who come to celebrate with the Quinceanera may also have this diversity.

It’s an old tradition to do the Quinceanera blessing just in Spanish, but most of the time, so that everyone in attendance can really understand what’s being said, the blessing, as well as much of the Mass, is done in both Spanish and English.

How a Quinceanera Differs from Confirmation

The primary difference between Confirmation and a Quinceanera blessing or Quinceanera Mass is that Confirmation is considered a sacrament. The Church defines the sacrament of Confirmation as something that “binds” a person “more perfectly” to the Church. It also gives them an obligation to spread the faith and be witnesses by word and by deed. Additionally, most Quinceaneras have already received the sacrament of Confirmation before their 15th birthday.

The celebration of a Quince complements the sacrament of Confirmation because the special blessing strengthens the young Catholic woman to carry out her new duties and responsibilities both to the Church and to her family.

Your Quinceanera has a Positive Impact on Your Parish

Our culture still promotes machismo, which is not necessarily a bad thing if it means that men display appropriate attributes of leadership and strength. But the Church views the humbleness of the Virgin Mary as a model for women of any age. If you choose to celebrate your 15th birthday in the Church, your Quinceanera can set a positive example for the entire parish because you have shown your willingness to bow to the example of the Virgin when it comes to submission and reverence.

Why the Quinceanera is Culturally Valuable

Today’s culture encourages pretty much anything and everything except reverent faith and service to church and family. But by standing in front of the altar surrounded by family and friends, you as a Quinceanera are making a public statement. You’re confirming your commitment when it comes to adopting your parents’ values.

You’re also making a public declaration that you’ll use the Church’s blessing to help you take a stand against negative peer pressure.

It’s tough to hold to stronger values when others are doing as they please, so be very proud of yourself for taking seriously the commitment to higher values that comes with your beautiful Quinceanera celebration!

The Spirit of the Quinceanera vs. the Extravagance of the Celebration

Just as families across many cultures save up for years to pay for a beautiful wedding for their daughter, many Hispanic families do all they can to provide the most lavish Quinceanera possible for their daughter, granddaughter, goddaughter or niece. And of course, it’s easy to “go overboard” with expensive details.

Outsiders often perceive an elaborate Quinceanera to be far beyond the means of the immediate family, but there is an important advantage:

The Quinceanera includes the custom of padrinos, madrinos and esponsores—family, friends and others who willingly donate money and/or gifts and services. It’s not unusual to have family members who are seamstresses and bakers, limousine drivers and musicians, even family who work for a florist or photographer and can get an excellent discount on decorations and services. This way even a Quinceanera who comes from a family with only a modest income may have a celebration that really is over the top.

Even so, many of the people who donate to a Quince still want to see the religious aspect of the ritual upheld, which is why it’s not unusual that, the more extravagant the reception, the more emphasis is put on the Quinceanera Mass and blessing.

A Chance for Personal Guidance in a Group

Some parishes prefer to have two or more girls celebrate their Quinceanera at the same Mass. They consider this to be “pastoral guidance” because it puts more emphasis on the liturgy rather than focusing on any one individual. Other parishes or parish organizations may sponsor a monthly celebration for all the Quinceaneras to be celebrated during that month.

The parish might also strongly encourage families to hold their parties in the church hall so that the parish can maintain some control over what takes place. Again, this gives the Church an opportunity to make sure the entire celebration is reverential and not overly secular.

Quinceanera as a Call to Leadership

A few years ago, the U.S. Bishops issued a pastoral letter calling for the entire Church to make personal discipleship, evangelization, the leadership of youth, and ministry to adolescents a serious concern. The letter focused on three goals, and each of those goals is represented in the Quinceanera Mass and blessing:

Empowering young people to live in today’s world as disciples of Christ.
Encouraging responsibility when it comes to the life, mission, and faith of the community.
Fostering each young person’s spiritual and personal growth.

Just as the goal of the marriage ceremony is to strengthen the bond between individuals and families and thus make the newly married couple spiritual leaders in the community, the purpose of the Quinceanera is the same. The only difference is that the leader is a dedicated young woman striving to stand on her own in society while upholding the traditional values of her Church and family.

Your Quince is a Family Blessing, Too

Your Quinceañera is valuable for its religious message. It sets you apart and makes you an example, not just to your family and extended family, but also to other young people your age. A Quince sets a standard for commitment and is a call to others of your parish and in your world to join prayerfully with you in making a stronger commitment to God as well as making your world a more faith-focused place.

To learn more about how your Quinceanera is an important spiritual blessing, click here:Exploring your Quinceanera Part 1: A Sacred Blessing

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From Little Girl to Young Lady: The Traditions of the Quinceanera

manager — Thu, 22 Sep 2016 14:57:33 +0000

Did you ever look at that long, long to-do list for your Quinceanera and wonder where all of those details came from and what they mean? Well, they’re what makes a Hispanic girl’s 15th birthday far more important and meaningful than a simple Sweet 16 party. Your Quinceanera symbolizes your transition from childhood to adulthood, and is so important that it takes a 2-part celebration to really do it justice. So let’s take a look at the beautiful symbolism behind that to-do list of yours. We’ll start with your ceremony, end with your Last Doll, and have fun changing your shoes in between!

Four Traditional Gifts

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The first and probably most important things that set your Quinceanera apart from any other birthday are the beautiful and meaningful spiritual gifts you’ll receive. Not only are these accessories lovely in their own right, but they represent the spiritual beauty that is blossoming inside you.

You may not have all four of these accessories on your Quinceanera shopping list, but once you know what they really stand for, you just might change your mind!

Tiara: While a Sweet 16 girl may wear a tiara for fun, your Quinceanera tiara marks you as a princess of God who is now ready to rise above the simple life of a child and take your adult place in both your religious family and your family of relatives and friends.

Scepter: A scepter has always been a symbol of power for royalty. Now that you’re no longer a child, your scepter represents your authority as a full member of your religious community as well as your responsibility to participate in the important events and rituals in the Church.

To read a beautiful poem written about specifically about your Quinceanera scepter, click here: https://scepter.wordpress.com/tag/quinceanera-poem/

Cross or Crucifix or Medal: This beautiful piece of jewelry is for you to wear as a visible symbol of your faith in God.

Bible or Prayer Book and Rosary: Some Quinceaneras choose to receive all three of these gifts. The Bible is a reminder to learn God’s word while the prayer book is a meditation and commentary on those words. The rosary is a lovely tradition that’s been adopted by many Christians as a way to pray in a gentle, repetitive way.

Gotta Love Those Shoes!

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Although it’s nowhere nearly as symbolic as the religious accessories, the Quinceanera tradition of the Changing of the Shoes is both significant and is just plain fun! Changing from flats to heels marks your transformation from a little girl to a young lady.

Ceremonial Pillows

During the church ceremony, you’ll be required to kneel, and your family may give you a unique pillow embroidered with your name or initials. You may also have other pillows for the presentation of your tiara and scepter, and sometimes for your shoes. You can have your pillows beautifully decorated with ribbons and ruffles and lace in a matched set, or your family may give you hand-made or hand-decorated pillows. It all depends on personal preference as well as whatever style goes best with the theme of your Quince.

First Toast & Last Doll

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At your reception, it’s tradition that you, the Quinceanera, be welcomed by your guests with a celebratory toast called a brindis. This toast is usually your first taste of champagne, so, of course, there are sets of decorated toasting glasses made specifically for a Quince.

The Last Doll is often the final ceremonial act that marks the end of your childhood. Some Quinceaneras carry the doll during some of the dancing while others give it to their younger sister or cousin in a simple ceremony some time later in the reception program.

The toasting glasses, and the Last Doll, and the pillows, and the guest book can all be ordered in matched sets or again, can be decorated individually for a personal touch.

Modern Abundance

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Once a simple celebration often held at home or in the church recreation hall, Quinceaneras are now often grand affairs, and your parents may have saved up as much for your Quince as they will for your wedding!

While the meaning of the Quinceañera still holds— a right of passage into adulthood—modern day Quince’s have included a few more trappings that add both to the extravagance of the affair and also to its expense. Although there are some families who celebrate a Quince within a modest budget, there are others who go all out with high-end invitations, expensive designer dresses, full course formal dinners and ultra-professional photo, video and entertainment.

Neither style is right or wrong. It’s all up to you and your family as to how lavish you want your Quince to be.

No Matter How You Celebrate, Your Quince is a Very Special Day!

Even though other cultures may not attach as much importance to a 15th or 16th birthday, you know what your birthday is all about. Entering adulthood should always be celebrated whether you’re a debutante, a sweet sixteen, or turning 21.

But of all the ways to celebrate landmark birthdays, the Quince has taught us to make the most of the occasion. So enjoy your special day, because whether it’s simple or over the top opulent, your Quinceanera is your day to really shine!

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The History of the Quinceanera: Celebrations Old & New

manager — Thu, 28 Jul 2016 16:17:23 +0000

How much do you know about the lovely tradition of a 15-year-old Latin American girl’s transition into womanhood known as the Quinceanera? Even if you know a good deal, it’s always fun to see what’s new. So we’ve put together a little history on how the Quinceanera—also know as La Fiesta Quinceanera—came to be, how time has left its mark, and where the Quinceanera is today.

Ancient Roots

Historians believe that the Quinceanera began with the Aztecs. Men trained their sons for battle while mothers prepared their daughters for motherhood. To celebrate the transition from little girls to the next generation of mothers-to-be who would then bring new sons into the tribe, they’d make a grand event of the girls’ 15th birthdays. During those times, 15 was seen as an age fit for motherhood because it’s not unusual for mid-teen girls to have completed puberty by that time.

Symbols of Transition

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The original tradition includes symbols—some still incorporated today—that represent the girl’s entrance to womanhood. The ultima muñeca—The Last Doll—represents her childhood days. It was presented to her by her chambelan de honor (her male escort who is usually her same age), and as she took her first dance, she carried the doll in her arms. Soon after, she passed the doll to her younger sister or cousin as a sign that she no longer needed dolls and other toys.

A Two-Part Celebration

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Just as in the past, today’s Quinceanera traditionally consists of two parts: the Mass and the fiesta or reception. Each segment is rich with representations of the transition from childhood to womanhood. The splendor of each girl’s 15th birthday celebration is different across the social classes, but what is common among all is the celebration of the Mass. This signifies the girl’s affirmation of service to God as a “daughter of the king.” And to show her new position as “royalty,” she wears a beautiful dress or ball gown.

Corte de Honor

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For the grandest Quince celebrations, the celebrant has a royal court with 14 young girls—called damas—and 14 boys—chambelanes—who are paired and dance during the fiesta. During the Mass, members of this Corte de Honor carry and/or present the other symbols of a traditional Quinceanera. One chambelan will carry the pillow with the celebrant’s first pair of high heels while a dama is in charge of carrying a pillow—sometimes heart-shaped—with a crown or tiara. These symbols represent a crossing over into womanhood as the celebrant can now wear high heels and jewelry. The tiara reinforces the princess of God concept.

From Childhood to Young Woman

One of the most symbolic acts of the Quinceanera is the celebrant changing into high heels. During the Mass, she usually wears flats, representing that she is still a child. She then changes into high heels when it’s time for the fiesta, and her father usually assists. After switching into heels, she dances briefly with her mother who then escorts her to a throne and places a tiara on her daughter’s head. Her father then escorts her to the dance floor for their father-daughter dance.

A Grand Gala

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The Quinceanera fiesta has almost always been a large party because, as the parents share these milestones with their daughter, they want the entire community to join in and witness their daughter’s transformation. In ancient times, there was a vast difference in the way a girl was treated by the community before and after her Quinceanera. Nowadays, many celebrants just want to have a fancy 15th birthday celebration where they can invite their friends and family to enjoy a party and a delicious feast.

A Once in a Lifetime Celebration

The cost of a Quinceanera with all the trimmings runs anywhere from $5,000 to $8,000. However, for a truly extravagant party, these days it could easily run as high as $15,000. In addition, since modern celebrations have incorporated new changes, there are many ways to make a Quinceanera extraordinary.

Myriad Themes

Celebrants can now select from different themes for their 15th birthday celebration, and more activities have been added. Sometimes the traditional Corte de honor activities are replaced with photo booths, professional performances, games, and other fun things that all the guests can participate in.

The Last Doll

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The traditional symbol of the Last Doll—once handmade of fine fabrics and ceramic or porcelain—is now often a lovely store-bought doll. There are myriad ways to be creative with this option, including having the celebrant’s mother make a dress for the girl’s actual last doll!

Blending Old and New

Here are some ideas to celebrate your Quinceanera a little differently and so set it apart even more from the classic formal celebration:

Brunch

A brunch Quinceanera makes for a beautiful beginning to the day, particularly an outdoor celebration during springtime. Imagine serving the tasty—and cost-effective!—breakfast foods that people love best along with coffee and hot chocolate. A brunch option can be so affordable that you could have a truly indulgent feast.

The theme for a brunch Quince would also be a bit more casual, so if you don’t relish the idea of formal attire, a morning Mass and fiesta may be an excellent option for you. Your guests, too, can dress less formally. The only downside may be waking up early, but if everyone knows the food will be amazing and the party a lot of fun, don’t worry about your guests’ willingness to make the effort to be with you. Besides, with a morning Quinceanera, you’ll be giving them the rest of the day off!

Movie or TV Theme

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Do you ever imagine dressing up as your favorite movie character and having some of the same cool stuff that was in the film? You can also pattern your Quince after a popular TV series like Game of Thrones, or even your favorite cartoon, comic book character, or book.

Performing Charity vs. Hosting a Personal Celebration

Some girls, no matter their age, just don’t relish the thought of being the center of attention. If that’s your style, you don’t need to force yourself to take center stage just because it’s your pivotal 15th birthday. You can celebrate your Quinceanera by doing charity work with an organization supporting children’s welfare or perhaps an orphanage for girls. You can also still have the “grand celebration” that your parents might want by sponsoring a lovely party for the kids you’re working with. That makes them the spotlight instead of you. And what parent wouldn’t be more than proud of a daughter with a heart for giving?

Destination Quinceanera

Rather than spending thousands of dollars locally on a large celebration, why not take your family and closest friends on a road trip or a mini-vacation? You could even go somewhere in South America to explore the country of your ancestors! This is an excellent way to honor and connect with your roots. It’s also a very unique way to celebrate your 15th birthday.

One Last Idea: Share the Spotlight with a Friend

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You may have other friends or cousins who will be celebrating their Quinceanera close to yours, so why not have a joint party? Your families can split the expenses for the venue and food, and more people can attend and make the event even grander. This is ideal for those with tightly knit families or perhaps childhood friends whose mothers took the same pregnancy exercise classes! It’s a truly easy, special and affordable way to have a grand celebration. Not to mention your moms will be thrilled to have their daughters celebrate their Quinceaneras together!

Fun Fact: Some women celebrate a “Double Quinceanera” on their 30th birthday! This is a great idea if you have a really modest celebration the first time around. Check out Pinterest for some cool ideas that would actually work well for a regular Quinceanera! https://www.pinterest.com/pin/87890630206836060/

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